Hello everyone
I chose to write about imposing gay
marriage on religion institutions. This blog is not about the right or wrong of
been gay neither if gay people have the right to Marry the person whom they
love. It’s acceptable to be gay nothing wrong with that and its normal that two
people that love each other and committed to each other to marry no matter if
they are homosexual or heterosexual both people exists since the
creation of the world, and all have to be treat equal . But this argument is about
if it’s right or wrong to impose gay marriage on religion institutions.
1-Should Government legalize same –sex
marriage?
In most countries the constitution clearly state that all people have to be
treated equally regardless of their belief, color or their sexual orientation so legalizing same-sex marriage is simply
acknowledging their right to share their
life with the person whom they love and committed to, just like any heterosexual have the right to have a family. US senator Diane Savino has
given great speech about equality . There are
countries which are good example of equality such as Uruguay it becomes the second nation in Latin America and the
12th in the world in legalizing gay marriage. In the 13th place is New Zealand when the (Definition of Marriage) Amendment Bill passed by 77 votes to 44. it was historical moment when members of parliament start to sing Love song
“Pokarekare Ana, these are good examples of countries treating everyone equal
and given them the right to live their life how they want with whom they want, NZ
government granted not to force any religion institutions to accept gay
marriage or to use the place as a wedding venue if it’s against their belief,
So yes the government should legalize same sex marriage.
2- Should government impose same –sex marriage
on religion institutions?
If any government impose same-sex marriage in my opinion that
will be breaking one of the constitutions which are freedom of belief, most
religion do not accept homosexuality let alone to accept marriage between the
same sex and that due to their beliefs .There
is a debate in the UK that the government might
impose gay marriage on religion institutions the church of England are having concerns with the government going ahead with the
plan of same sex marriage, although the Prime Minister David Cameron earlier had assured that the Church of England will
have the right to legal exemption and the freedom of religions , but there is a
possibility that church of England will be sued at
the European Court of Human Rights if they refused to allow same sex marriage
or refuse to let their worship place to be used as a venue by gay couple ,also
there chance that teachers in Christian
school who will not promote same sex marriage as they do with heterosexual
marriage they might get fired. Muslim religion
leader in UK also have concerns about this issue they asking to have the same legal
exemption as the Church of England. The answer simply is no because government
should protect the freedom of belief.
Personal point view
Let me start by saying although I came from
a Muslim back ground, I am a liberal and I believe in equality and that gay
people have the right to have family and to be treated equally just as the
heterosexual individual that’s why I
support legalizing same sex marriage. The
point of that is to give them the right to have normal life to share their life
with the person they love and to have family, but when I heard about the
possibility of imposing gay marriage on religion institutions I start thinking
isn’t that breaking the rule of freedom of belief?Marriage in most religion is
defined as a union between a man and a woman this belief have been existing for
thousands and thousands of years and we should respect that as long as the
religion institutions open their doors for gay people whom want to practice
their belief and not to be denied the right of worship just because they are gays.
But if a church wants to perform a same
–sex marriage then it’s a good thing but not to be forced. A church in Ponsonby
Auckland is good example of a religion institution for opening their doors to
perform same –sex marriage without been forced, When tow people get a civil
union or partnership that the same as marriage because it is the reunion
between two people who love and committed to each in my opinion that's good because they have same right as the straight couple does,getting married in church wont make the relationship stronger neither it will make it weaker !! I don't see the point of
imposing gay marriage on religion institution. What good can come out of it?
Isn’t state and religion should be separated? And if the government does impose
same sex marriage isn’t that denying their right of belief? I strongly support
legalizing same sex marriage but I am strongly against imposing gay marriage on
religion institutions.
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This is a very interesting subject that you have argued from a point of view that I haven't considered before. However, I believe that religious institutions should be made to accept gay people and marriages and to abolish discrimination within our churches and places of worship.
ReplyDeleteReligion has a lot of influence and persuasive power, and is responsible for the beliefs of millions of people around the world. Many wars, acts of terrorism, bullying etc have been carried out due to religious beliefs and I strongly believe that religious institutions must start taking responsibility for the way they indoctrinate their followers.
Religion, no matter what type, should be a powerful teaching to love and respect the world and your fellow human beings. It should be all inclusive and tolerant. Freedom of belief is a given as long as beliefs are not promoting hate. We should not have whole institutions that exclude, and promote exclusion, as this just creates fear, and through fear we create hate and intolerance. We need to do everything as a unified race to stop discrimination and hate, and to join as one. Believe in what ever God you want, but don't hate on others.
Thank you for this thought provoking argument. You need to fix some spelling mistakes.
Thank younAmanda
DeleteCan you please point out these mistakes :)
Well, this is a tricky subject isn't it? I think the whole religion/church against gay people is just plain ludicrous. As a Christian I know the bible says a man shall not love another man etc but well, I don't believe it. It's a topic that sticks in my craw because I fight against it for the plain reason that I don't believe in discrimination of anybody.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad same-sex marriage has been legalized. Same sex couple are just like the rest of us, with the exception of their sexual orientation. Other than that are they different? Do they look different, smell different? No.
How many Kings of England preferred the company of men to women? Makes you think doesn't it? Gay people have every right to be accepted into society. The bible says you should love your enemy. We are all brothers and sisters, sons and daughters of God.
I considered this topic myself, but decided against it. I'm too passionate about it to be comprehensive.
P.S as a straight female, many of my friends are gay and I don't see any problem with that.
Hi Zahra,
ReplyDeleteGood picture to identify the topic! A small suggestion is that I think it's Better to change the color of the font or bold it to make it easily read for the readers.
You have presented very clear opinions that agree with gay marriage; while at the same time against imposing it on religion institution. To me, this is a very special combination.
I think most people can’t separate law and religion when talking about gay marriage. And this is the reason why this topic makes such a big issue in human society. Actually, I agree with you the only solution is to treat gay marriage into different ways as in legal system and religion system.
My question is, can we really separate religion from law? Sometime, religion has obvious power over government, like Vatican; while sometime government want to show their political power by force religion group accept the rules, like the case you mentioned in U.K.
I think if people can accept the fact that people being equally treated is in the term of law not in the term of religion, the fight would stop.